Your rights in a relationship: If you are in a relationship, you must be treated with fairness, which means your boyfriend or partner: is willing to compromise lets you feel comfortable being yourself is able to admit to being wrong tries to resolve conflict by talking honestly enables you to feel safe being with him respects your feelings, your opinions and your friends accepts you saying no to things you don't want to do (like sex) accepts you changing your mind respects your wishes if you want to end the relationship When someone loves you, you feel valued, liked and free to be yourself. You should not be made to feel intimidated or controlled.   Think about your relationship - do you feel respected? Have you or your friends had experiences like this? Tell us.   This quiz supplied courtesy of: The Domestic Violence & Incest Resource Centre (DVIRC) Melbourne, Australia. (c) 1998, When Love Hurts website.