
What's respectful and what's
disrespectful sexual behaviour?
SEX QUIZ -
RESPECTFUL
Are you comfortable with the way your boyfriend
touches you?
Are you comfortable to say no anytime, at any
stage?
Do you find your sexual desire is increasing
since you met your boyfriend?
Have you found your knowledge about your own
body's sexual response is increasing since you have meet your
boyfriend?
Have you learnt more about your body's sexual
responses with this boyfriend?
Can you talk about your sexual likes and dislikes
to your boyfriend?
Do you feel that you are both exploring your
sexual likes and dislikes at a comfortable pace?
Is your boyfriend accepting that your sexual
likes may be different to his?
Have you and your boyfriend discussed contraception?
Have you and your boyfriend reached an agreement
about contraception?
Does your boyfriend take responsibility for
contraception?
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respectful sex? click here
If you answer yes to most of
these questions you are probably well on the way to establishing
a safe and enjoyable sexual relationship. For further information
click here
"Remember don't start until
you are ready and in a respectful relationship!!!" How would
you know you are ready? click here
SEX QUIZ
- DISRESPECTFUL
Are you uncomfortable with the way your boyfriend
touches you?
Do you feel uncomfortable saying no?
Do you feel pressure to be sexual?
Do you feel unable to tell your boyfriend what
you like or don't like?
Does your boyfriend think you have a problem
if you don't want the same things as him sexually?
Do you worry, most of the time, about your
boyfriends sexual wants?
Do you feel you are the only one responsible
for contraception?
Are you scared about getting pregnant?
Are you scared about getting a sexual transmitted
disease?
Has your sexual desire decreased around your
boyfriend?
Are you having sex without being physically
aroused?
Are you experiencing pain when you have sex with your boyfriend?
Are you keeping secrets from your close friends
about your sexual relationship?
Do you feel to ashamed to talk to other people
about your worries about sex?
Are you scared your boyfriend will leave you
if you say no?
Are you scared your boyfriend will physically
hurt you if you say no?
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sex? click here
If you answer yes to most of
these questions, especially the last seven, please go to Useful Contacts
"Remember
if you are always worried about sex and contraception when you
are with your boyfriend your desire will go!"
"You will have the most
pleasure when you are safe and are free to choose who, when and
how!!!!"