What's respectful and what's disrespectful sexual behaviour?

SEX QUIZ - RESPECTFUL

Are you comfortable with the way your boyfriend touches you?

Are you comfortable to say no anytime, at any stage?

Do you find your sexual desire is increasing since you met your boyfriend?

Have you found your knowledge about your own body's sexual response is increasing since you have meet your boyfriend?

Have you learnt more about your body's sexual responses with this boyfriend?

Can you talk about your sexual likes and dislikes to your boyfriend?

Do you feel that you are both exploring your sexual likes and dislikes at a comfortable pace?

Is your boyfriend accepting that your sexual likes may be different to his?

Have you and your boyfriend discussed contraception?

Have you and your boyfriend reached an agreement about contraception?

Does your boyfriend take responsibility for contraception?

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SEX QUIZ - DISRESPECTFUL

Are you uncomfortable with the way your boyfriend touches you?

Do you feel uncomfortable saying no?

Do you feel pressure to be sexual?

Do you feel unable to tell your boyfriend what you like or don't like?

Does your boyfriend think you have a problem if you don't want the same things as him sexually?

Do you worry, most of the time, about your boyfriends sexual wants?

Do you feel you are the only one responsible for contraception?

Are you scared about getting pregnant?

Are you scared about getting a sexual transmitted disease?

Has your sexual desire decreased around your boyfriend?

Are you having sex without being physically aroused?

Are you experiencing pain when you have sex with your boyfriend?

Are you keeping secrets from your close friends about your sexual relationship?

Do you feel to ashamed to talk to other people about your worries about sex?

Are you scared your boyfriend will leave you if you say no?

Are you scared your boyfriend will physically hurt you if you say no?

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If you answer yes to most of these questions, especially the last seven, please go to Useful Contacts

"Remember if you are always worried about sex and contraception when you are with your boyfriend your desire will go!"

"You will have the most pleasure when you are safe and are free to choose who, when and how!!!!"

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